Dear dream seeker working in a job you loathe, but feels comfortable when you go to want to leave it…
I see you wearing your corporate cloak, adorned with the shackles you have put on…I hear your voice pitch higher when you speak of your true desires. I watch your eyes light up when you tell me your plans of working from home, being there for the kids. Then the dream stops, you sigh and walk away. Your fear walks down the hallway in your place and shares with me…whispers to me “Who the fuck am I to do what I wish…I would let people down, it’s too risky”
From today make the decision to move forward into your resistance. Because on the other side of this are the answers you seek. When you see yourself falling into your default mode (I don’t know, head in the sand, walk away, shut down, negative talk, worry, fear never knowing what you want) stay in that space for longer.
- Will it hurt and feel like crap…YES!
- Will it end, YES!
- Will you come out the other side, YES!
- Will you start to gain clarity, absolutely.
- But until YOU change, life won’t change.
Dreams of leaving your job and doing what you LOVE, requires two things- Persistence and Belief. Your desire must be strong enough to fight those shadows. Because hell girlfriend the hard stuff hasn’t even happened yet! You gotta jump over this first hurdle yet. You still have to work out if your idea is viable, find a way to keep money coming in so you don’t build your dreams from lack.
There will never be a right time to start. You will always feel like you are letting someone down, but here is the thing. You left yourself down the most. Excuse my bumper sticker moment but it really is time for you. Time to make the decision that you are worthy of remembering what you love to do. The only way to do this is to trust. Trust you know already what you are capable of and make a decision to lift the self-imposed limitations.
What if the time was right… Right now. What comes up for you? Walk into that resistance. Call it out. Because it is just made up stories. It has taken years to build this hardened exterior where you fear others opinions, where you have lost your voice and forgot what it is you really love to do. So give sometime to work on yourself first…
Let’s do this!
Start with writing down and visualising your perfect day. From the moment you wake up until the moment you go to sleep. Do this as if you are asking for exactly what it is you want. Deep down…You know what you want. You just need to start asking, playing with the idea that it can actually happen and that you are worth it.
I am here for you as your cheerleader but also as a coach, to help you step forward.
You’ve got this. If you are ready to start now and catapult into 2016 then you will love my new self study, easy & fun programme. “Ditch The Blocks & Rock Your Biz” Check it out.
Nat x
